Backport of fix(docs): change set to list when recommending using toset() into v1.3

Merge pull request #32055 from hashicorp/backport/jbardin/destroy-checkable-outputs/mainly-diverse-ox

Backport of Clean up handling of check-related graph nodes into v1.3

NoOp changes should not participate in a destroy sequence, but because
they are included as normal update nodes the usual connections were
still being made.

Refreshing for a destroy should use the refresh-only plan to avoid
planning new objects or evaluating conditions. This should also be
skipped if there is no state, since there would be nothing to refresh.

The removeRootOutputs field was not strictly used for that purpose, and
was also copied to another DestroyPlan field.

IsFullDestroy was a workaround during apply to detect when the change
set was created by a destroy plan. This no longer works correctly, and
we need to fall back to the UIMode set in the plan.

Not all root output instances were going through proper expansion when
destroy operations were involved, leading to cases where they would be
evaluated even though the expected result was only to remove them from
the state.

Normally destroy nodes stand alone in the graph, and do not produce
references to other nodes. Because root output nodes were replaced by
expansion nodes, these were being connected via normal references, even
in the case where we were working with a destroy graph.

Module output may need to be evaluated during destroy in order to
possibly be used by providers. The final state however is that all
objects are destroyed, so preconditions should not be evaluated.

* backport of commit a2bcc4ed

* backport of commit e0dcc9e8

* backport of commit b68c925c

* backport of commit 06537b09

* backport of commit e9502900

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* no-op commit due to failed cherry-picking

* chore: rewrite internal redirects (#32038)
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* backport of commit 52bbf8df762c2985bacfbb46361dfb2ea3d91a77

* backport of commit 595c4656fb68a9fbbf24abb015238a84a3725f42
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Backport of go get -u golang.org/x/net into v1.3

Backport of core: A NoOp orphan change has nothing to apply into v1.3

We missed merging this change, I'm just re-doing it in the right file: https://github.com/hashicorp/terraform/pull/31753

Backport of Add callout to Continuous Validation into v1.3

Merge pull request #31956 from hashicorp/backport/mg_no_code_prov_followup/marginally-relevant-eagle

Backport of Adding mention of no-code to Creating Modules section of TF Language docs into v1.3

Backport of Update backends.mdx into v1.3