### _Why are the changes needed?_

Better ASF GHA resource usage, see more https://cwiki.apache.org/confluence/display/BUILDS/GitHub+Actions+status

- cancel-in-progress enabled. w/ this, a previous build can be canceled if new commit(s) have arrived
- style check w/o install. currently, the style check takes 8~10min to finish because an install step before it. now, it shall return within a minute. note that, this might 'fail' itself when we introduce a new module and others depend on it, but it's ok to verify by the log whether a PR ok to be merged.
- dependency check runs only when pom.xml updates. this flow now runs only pom changes as it is the only way that may cause dependency changes.

### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible

- [x] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate

**Canceled**: https://github.com/apache/incubator-kyuubi/runs/5604809742?check_suite_focus=true

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- [x] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests

) locally before make a pull request

Closes #2175 from yaooqinn/gha.

Closes #2175

33777bc5 [Kent Yao] Update .github/workflows/style.yml
ec41ddd0 [Kent Yao] Update .github/workflows/style.yml
79db981f [Kent Yao] fix
4e1fb387 [Kent Yao] fix
733df9cb [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
494c3a84 [Kent Yao] Revert "Improve CI with cancel & concurrency"
57641ac4 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
6dafe970 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
40160ab9 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
377285c2 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
dbe8999e [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
78a97260 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
7e984ebd [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
d2538210 [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
51a7c48c [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
c5e3177a [Kent Yao] Improve CI with cancel & concurrency
Authored-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>