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Use [`scopt`](https://github.com/scopt/scopt) replace custom parser to parse arguments.

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Closes #754 from hddong/kyuubi-753.

Closes #753

3d2645d8 [hongdongdong] fix check style
fd181452 [hongdongdong] fix output
ef7c44e4 [hongdongdong] use scopt help
682b3a2f [hongdongdong] [KYUUBI#753] Use scopt to parse arguments
Authored-by: hongdongdong <hongdongdong@cmss.chinamobile.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>